Liturgical Colour : Purple/Violet

Dear brothers and sisters in Christ, today we heard about how Jesus taught His disciples how to pray properly, by showing them the perfect prayer, which He prayed to the Father, as a way of communicating with Him. He showed the people, that prayer ought not be a long litany of words and requests or petitions, but instead, prayer should be direct in its meaning and purpose, or else, we end up losing the true essence and meaning of prayer itself.

Prayer is not a litany of demands or a way for us to extort what we want from God. Many of us have the misconception that because God is loving and gracious then He will fulfill everything that we ask of Him. We misinterpreted the meaning of the words of Jesus when He said, “Ask and you shall be given.” That is why when we do not get we want from our Lord through our prayers, then we often become disappointed or even angry against God, because we think that He does not care for us by not answering and fulfilling our prayers.

God knows every single thing that we need, from the least and smallest things to the biggest and most important things. There is no need to worry about anything but rather, we must have the courage and humility to ask Him to provide us with what we need in life. That is why Jesus in His prayer mentioned the part on ‘Give us today our daily bread’. It is meant to ask the Lord to provide us with what we truly need and not what we, in our endless desires, want.

The essence of prayer is for us to be able to communicate with the Lord our God, that we may speak with Him and He may also speak with us as well. As we can see, it is a two-way conversation between us and God, and not just a unidirectional conversation, as we all often did, by bombarding the Lord with requests, desires, demands, or even curses and anger when we did not get our prayers fulfilled as we wanted them.

Jesus taught us how to pray, and indeed, the Pater Noster or the Our Father, and also known as the Lord’s Prayer because it was Jesus who prayed it, is a perfect prayer. It begins with not a request or demand or wish, but with the glorification of the Lord and submission to the will of God. ‘Holy is Your Name’ and ‘Your will be done.’, indeed these are proof of our understanding that whatever we want, ultimately, it is not our will that will be done, but God’s will. Mary, the mother of our Lord also showed this when the Archangel Gabriel showed up to her and proclaimed that she was to be the Mother of God.

And as mentioned, the prayer asks for the grace enough for one, in what one needs in life. There is indeed no need for excess, as we are by our nature very difficult to satisfy. Our desire and want is such that, once we have what we want, we have the tendency to have more of it. We really have to wake up to the realisation that while there are many things that we may want to have, and while temptation is truly difficult to resist, but the Lord will show the way to us.

And this prayer also pointed out what we have to realise, especially in this season of Lent, that we are all sinners and therefore we deserve to be destroyed, and yet God in His rich mercy and forgiveness had forgiven all of us our sins, and if only that we are to put our complete faith and trust in Him, we shall receive His full grace and blessings. But if God had forgiven us our sins, then we too have to forgive those who sinned against us.

The parable of the ungrateful servant will highlight the importance of this. In that parable, a servant was forgiven from his great and huge debts by his master and lord, who had pity on him and forgave him all the debts even though he initially wanted the servant to be severely punished. But after that, the servant did not forgive another servant who had some debts to him, although those debts was far smaller than what the lord had forgiven the first servant.

As a result, the lord and master punished the ungrateful servant, who did not forgive even a small fault while his much greater fault had been forgiven by his lord. That servant was punished even greater than before, and the mercy shown to him was withdrawn. From this, we should learn that, whatever our brethren and people around us had done to us, be it something hurtful or malicious in nature, we have to learn to forgive them, and forgive one another our sins to each other.

For our sins are very, very great, the collection of the wickedness we have committed throughout our respective lives. Yet, if we are willing to abandon them and believe fully in the Lord our God, He is ready to forgive all of them and welcome us into His glory, but if we cannot even forgive our friends and others who had sinned against us, incomparable as they are to the sum of our wickedness, then it is also difficult for our Lord to forgive us our sins then.

Therefore, let us today reflect on what we have discussed and also heard from the Holy Scriptures. We have to bring ourselves closer to the Lord, firstly by fortifying our own prayer life, communicating and conversing with God, allowing not just ourselves to speak to Him, but even more importantly, that is to allow Him to speak in our hearts. If we have done so, then certainly, we will be able to know better what God wants from us, and that is our love, devotion and ability to love one another in the same way as we have loved ourselves.

Brothers and sisters in Christ, let us all renew our faith to the Lord, not just by mere words but also through deeds. We have to love each other and forgive each others’ faults and sin to one another. And only then, we can be really called truly the children of God, and our Father who is in heaven, as Jesus had introduced Him to us, shall reward us with the gift of eternal life. God bless us all. Amen.