Liturgical Colour : Green

Dear brothers and sisters in Christ, on this day, we heard about how we ought to love in our lives. Should we love only those who also show love and care for us? Or should our love and care be extended to all the peoples around us without exception, including those who have hated and despised us? What is love really, and how do we express it then?

We ought to first understand what Christ had taught us through His disciples, and most importantly what He had shown by action to show us what love really is, for He is Love Himself. He showed us that love should be impartial, unconditional and selfless, and not the kind of love that we are often exposed to, love that is selfish, filled with desire and lust. This is worldly and selfish love that does not bring benefit to us.

When we expect our love to be reciprocated back to us, then this is where the root of many problems came from. A lot of conflict and disputes between families and members of families, and a lot of discontent and discord that happened between the people of God, can be traced back to how we in our selfishness were afraid and fearful that we would lose the love and the attention of others. We treasure that human friendship and approval, and we fear the moments when we are not loved by others around us.

And when this happens, we either become resentful on others, being jealous on the loving relationship that others have, and desiring it as our own, or otherwise we seek to capitalise on that relationship, resulting in disloyalty and lack of commitment, because we see how relationships are just assets and things to be possessed and manipulated, and once they have outlived their usefulness, we abandon them and cast them aside.

This is why we have seen a great increase in the occurrence of divorce, where married couples could not commit to their wedding commitment, and decided to disobey the Lord and His Law, by breaking the union which had existed between them through divorce, and therefore sinning against God. Divorce is sin, plain and straightforward, no matter how the world tried to argue against this fact. But this would have been preventable had they understood what love really is.

Love in reality is selfless, the selfless giving of oneself to another. And when in a married couple, love ought to be truly a selfless giving of each other to one another, so that in the couple is cultivated true love, where both of the couple, man and woman are bound by the indissoluble bonds of love. This is exactly what our Lord had shown us by His example, of having loved us all first even when we were still sinners.

St. Paul in his letter pointed out this fact, that God loves us so much that even when we are still sinners, He was willing to give up His life for us, so that we may have life in ourselves through His love. If He had not genuinely loved us, and wanted returns from us, it is unlikely that He would have died for our sake. After all, we mankind had shown unfaithfulness and untrustworthiness from the example of the Israelites, who continued again and again to defy the Lord and committed sins after sins.

But did the Lord hesitate to invest His time and attention, and ultimately His love and care to this rebellious people? No, He did not, and in fact, He offered Himself freely, and He even gave Himself for the sake of those who have rejected and persecuted Him, namely the chief priests, the teachers of the Law, the elders and the Pharisees, who had given Him so much trouble during His ministry.

Jesus Himself gave example by loving even His enemies, and indeed, He prayed for them, when He asked His Father not to hold their sins against them on the account of ignorance and blindness to the truth. Thus, He did not just preach with words only, but also with real action. When Jesus spoke about us having to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us, He showed it Himself by using Himself as the prime example, so that we too may believe in Him and follow His examples.

Therefore, on this day, brothers and sisters, let us all reflect on this which we have just discussed. Do we really know and understand what love is? It is an important question for us to ask ourselves, if we are to continue to live faithfully as the children and servants of God. Truly, if we practice the same kind of love as what Jesus had shown us, all of us will have our lives transformed for the better. Thus, let us all pray that God will continue to love us, and show us the way to love ever more and ever better, that we may love Him and one another with true sincerity. God bless us all. Amen.